Hi All
I THINK IRRESPECTIVE OF THE DIALECT WE SPEAK, WE ARE STILL INDIANS AND SHOULD THERFORE STAND TOGETHER AND PRAY FOR THE MASSES OF LIVES THAT HAVE BEEN LOST. WHATEVER THE REASONS FOR THE ATTACKS AT THE END OF THE DAY, WE ARE NOT HERE TO JUDGE BUT AS THE BIBLE SAYS….’WHEN TWO OR THREE AGREE ON EARTH IT SHALL BE DONE IN HEAVEN.’ I BELIEVE THAT GOD HEARS AND ANSWERS.
this is really sad....my tawts and prayers go out to these people, its not fair to live in this world where this happens...
hi john
words are less to comment on yours new sexy looks in dostana` ` ` ` ` ` ` you were ravashing dude!!!you used to rule the heart of girls but now guys to o o o o o o o !!!love you lots!!!so inspired by your yellow trunks that thus blog is also yellow
I am female age 30, going on age 31 in December 24th this year *sigh* I really cant believe in getting this old *cries* anyways, I am a very silly person unless someone gets on my bad side. I like to make people laugh alot.
I like to do Blog things...on blogthings.com
I cant seem to post that up here though i guess there is no HTML codeing for this site.
I will write more later...running out of computer time.
(Tuesday, 02 December 2008) Written by bluesky1234
Hi there
Your an excellent artist. I knew you'd go really far in the industry when I intially saw your work and you've proved that. Your latest release Dostana is good, but I'm sure you'll do better.
Keep on doing what you best.
Justine
Hi John...
I watched your DOSTANA. I really liked you and your hot-bod, too.
I am an engg. student and really-really willing and aiming to become a model. Therefore, I need your guidence to fulfil my dream. So, I request you to write a blog related to some tips and guide-lines related to modeling as a career. Please make me aware of the required body-basics and measurements if possible.
With it...
Thank you.
U look Grrrrrrrrrrrrreeeeeaaaaaaatttt...!!! :P
U r Amazing...!! :)
I Love You..!! Take Care.. And God Bless.. :)
Keep Smiling..!! :)
Keep Rocking...!! :)
http://in.youtube.com/watch?v=5W5Y-V1sB04
O saathiya, O beliya
Dekhi hai pehli baar aankhon ne yeh bahaar
Rut mast mast yeh din yeh waqt
Mausam ne kya jaadu kiya
Dil chura liya saathiya
Dekhi hai pehli baar aankhon ne yeh bahaar
Rut mast mast yeh din yeh waqt
Mausam ne kya jaadu kiya
Dil chura liya saathiya
Dil tha pyaasa
Bas humne saara saagar do ghoont mein pee liya
Pal do pal mein
Bas aaj hi kal mein sau saalon ka janam jee liya
Dekha hai pehli baar jeevan ke aar paar
Rut mast mast yeh din yeh waqt
Mausam ne kya jaadu kiya
Dil chura liya saathiya
Phoolon ko to khilte dekha tha
Kaante bhi aaj to khil gaye
Logon ko to milte dekha tha
Yeh dharti aasmaan mil gaye
Aaya hai pehli baar kismat pe aitbaar
Rut mast mast yeh din yeh waqt
Mausam ne kya jaadu kiya
……. Dil chura liya…. Saathiya ….. :)
(Saturday, 29 November 2008) Written by AJITSPARKLE
Hi John,
Loved your work in 'Dostana' and saw u in person at the trial of the film at Cinemax, Versova, where you showed up with Abhishek Bachchan and Priyanka Chopra( I'm a journalist)
One point though - your ears look very oily in the film, and your skin tone is also erratic ranging from looking very fair to being sullen. In some sequences, you look dark and your skin looks terrible. Plz take note of this and rectify it accordingly.
I'm sure you will take this in the right spirit.
Your admirer,
Ajit Ramachanddran
The terrorist attacks in Mumbai are simply inhuman and horrifying. I really hope that all the hostages are rescued and the brave commandos risking their lives are safe.
Chhadke Saariyaa Ek Vaariyaa Dil Nu Hulaayiaa Ki Bimaariyaan
Chhadke Saariyaa Ek Vaariyaa Dil Nu Hulaayiaa Ki Bimaariyaan
Chhadke Saariyaa Ek Vaariyaa Dil Nu Hulaayiaa Ki Bimaariyaan
Munda Munde Naal Pauda Yaariyaa Munda Munde Naal Pauda Yaariyaa
Shehra Paunda Dulhe Aunda Khwaab De Maa Da Ujad Gaya Maa Da Laadla Bigad Gaya
Maa Da Laadla Bigad Gaya Maa Da Laadla Bigad Gaya Maa Da Laadla Bigad Gaya
Heer Mili Na Isnu A Raanjhe Uthe Mar Gaya Heer Mili Na Isnu A Raanjhe Uthe Mar Gaya
Gora Chitta Mukhda Dekho Gaana Kar Gaya A Hoya Shadaai Hoye Ni Karo
Eni Mat Chup Karaai Hoye Ni Karo Jag Saara Hassi O Ki Kariye Hun Koi Ni Rassi O Ki Kariye
Mehndi Launda Shagun Baunda Khwaab De Maa Da Ujad Gaya Maa Da Laadla Bigad Gaya
Maa Da Laadla Bigad Gaya Maa Da Laadla Bigad Gaya Maa Da Laadla Bigad Gaya
Rab Hi Jaane Isde Kis Da Pyaa Parchhava Rab Hi Jaane Isde Kis Da Pyaa Parchhava
Enu Raas Na Aayiyaa Zulfadiyaan Thandiyaa Chhava A Dhoop Wich Sad Da Na Jaana
Hun Keh De Pad Da Na Jaana Enu Koi Sudhaare Hoye Logo Ena Bhoot Utaare Hoye Logo
Dekh Jodiyaa Raan Kodiyaa Bin Saade Kam Nipat Gaya Maa Da Laadla Bigad Gaya
Maa Da Laadla Bigad Gaya Maa Da Laadla Bigad Gaya Maa Da Laadla Bigad Gaya
Chhadke Saariyaa Ek Vaariyaa Dil Nu Hulaayiaa Ki Bimaariyaan
Chhadke Saariyaa Ek Vaariyaa Dil Nu Hulaayiaa Ki Bimaariyaan
Munda Munde Naal Pauda Yaariyaa Munda Munde Naal Pauda Yaariyaa
Shehra Baanda Dulhe Aunda Khwaab De Maa Da Ujad Gaya Maa Da Laadla Bigad Gaya
Maa Da Laadla Bigad Gaya Maa Da Laadla Bigad Gaya Maa Da Laadla Bigad Gaya
After the dreadful events of last night, I'm just hoping that all our Mumbai site members are OK - please check in and let us know. It's such an awful thing to happen - my thoughts are with the victims and their families. Vxx
This movie was AMAZING! I just could not keep my eyes off of john. In the opening song when they showed john basically naked in the yellow almost speedo, all the girls in the theater, including me, went crazy! He just looked sooooooooo sexy ahhhhhhhhh! There are no words to describe how we looks other than SEXY x10000. Aside from john and his sexiness, over all the move was fantastic i LOVED it it was sooooooooooo FUNNY! gosh! and the kiss at the end, LMFAO! so when it comes out on DVD im the first one to buy it. :)
John,
Your comedy performance-The Best The Best in Dostana if I speak in your language and you know u have improved a lot right from Garaam Masala to Dostana-I'm sure u mst hve heard frm your fans.
What I liked abt your acting in Dostana are :
1. The wy u deliver the dialogue in anger 'Hum gay hain' its gr8 comic timing
2.The wy u perform the female gay character by putting ur hand on cheek when gay investigation officer enters the hse.Its gr8 i lked it.
Wt i didnt lke is the role length I personally feel tht lenght of ur role ws less in Dostana as compare to abhi.
And I feel tht if one's acting is good it get recognized and the role lenght doesnt matter to audience.
And tdy I jst happenned to catch on ur last section of interview wth Anuradha on cnbc u remember- u knw u hve highlighted the reality of Ad guys which is very good job.
All the best dude bye
hey,
watched dostana today.its a quite cool movie.if u dont xpect any logic and watch the movie the way it is then its the movie u can look for.........i would like to give dostana 4/5
Thank you for being my friend
Thank you for supporting me when I was low
Thanks for being the shoulder to cry on when no was there
Thanks for not judging me
Thanks for the laughter and joy
Thanks for bringing the smile on my face
Thanks for understanding me
Thanks for making me believe in myself
Thanks for making me realise my dreams are within my reach
Thanks for the love you gave me
Thanks you for being the person you were.
Well, we all knew it was going to be a winner didn't we, and oh MY, is it EVER!! I absolutely LOVED this film, mainly because it is LONG overdue. Don't get me wrong - I respect and admire John's choices in that he's prepared to push the envelope with experimental roles (indeed, despite all the eye-candy, THIS one is pretty groundbreaking too), but frankly, for sheer, feel-good entertainment, you can't beat glamour, sex appeal and a damn good laugh - and this film has it all. Imagine going on a vibrant, exotic holiday with three gor-JUS, vivacious friends. You wouldn't want it to end, would you? Well, that's what viewing Dostana feels like.
I won't bore you with the plot - I mean, who doesn't know it? But rather than a 'rom-com' I'd say it's a 'com-rom' in that all the comedy (and what fantastic, gut-busting comedy it IS!) is in the first half and all the romance is in the second. (In fact, my ONLY carp would be that after the utter brilliance of the first hour, the second half seems a little deflated by comparison.)
Some reviewers have said they thought the film caricatured and offensive to the gay community. Well I didn't, nor did the gay friend who accompanied me. Yes, there ARE a few over-the-top characters, but no worse than ones I've seen portrayed in 'Will & Grace' for example. (But I suppose with a subject this touchy it's bound to upset someone.)
But enough of that. Let's talk John. Ah Johnny, John, John - what can I say about our darling? Well, for John fans, just the first TEN MINUTES of this film are pure gold dust - worth the ticket price on their own! Frankly, he has never looked so good. He is the sun god Apollo - gilded and mercurial, breathtakingly handsome and brimming with laughter and mischief. His comic timing is superb, as is his chemistry with the rest of the cast. It's just so refreshing to see him revelling in his sensuality - and that body is delicious - drawn steel dipped in gold, enough to make one weep with desire. I could watch him sprint, semi clad, across the shimmering sand all freakin' day - and once I have the DVD I fully intend to!!
And the others? Well, Priyanka is an absolute doll, and when you can act and joke as well as Abhishek you really don't need to flash any flesh. Bobby too is right on the money - very suave and elegant, and Boman Irani had us crying with laughter! The surprise ending? Well, it didn't surprise ME but I'm a worldly old woman, so I'll say no more - LOL!!!
To sum up - Dostana is a delight - a glass of sparkling tropical juice after a LONG thirst!! Go and see it - NOW! (You KNOW you want to!) Vxx
(Wednesday, 12 November 2008) Written by DhampirLover
Hi guys, its just been a couple of days since i made an account on here. i always came on here to read more about john abraham cause i love him and all. but i am a noob to this, so if anyone can help me, please do, i thank you lol. By the way, i still cant wait to see his new movie DOSTANA that comes out this week!!!
Hi John,
Your making of Dostana on Ndtv imagine dated 7 November,2008,friday was good.
While watching this making for a moment both you and Abhishek were looking best friends made forever bcz of the jokes you ppl were cracking.
All d best for this movie.
(Friday, 07 November 2008) Written by DhampirLover
John Abraham!! I love you!!!
not just because you really cute and famous. its because your movies are just sooo good and your a really awesome actor. I cant wait to see your new movies, especially Dostana! I believe you should get more awards than what the critics have given u :D
wow John, you are so hott!!! and it's just amazing because apart from all the females going crazy over you, you are also inspiring young men to be just like you and that's wonderful because the world does need more intelligent, and handsome men like you =]
WOW isn't enough word to use looking at you John..your body is amazing and I can't wait to see Dostana which should be coming out shortly but seen the previews and trailers, cannot wait. I went to Miami a few weeks ago and it would have been awesome if I was there when you were filming..I am like your NO 1 FAN...love you, love your movies, think you are an excellent actor who is so versatile and you just keep getting better and better ever second!
(Sunday, 02 November 2008) Written by pavzindal007
No doubut that jhon is a good humen.
he is a member of PETA. Most of the thing i would like to apply in life from jhon..
like, jhon is really careing about his parents and he hate with alcohal andhe left smoking.
this is good habit.
Attitude and understanding of releshonship is in jhon.
At last jhon is not a good actor and he has a lot of fan not in india but in world also not just because of his acting but his humanity also.
PAWAN KUMAR HAPPY DIWALI TO ALL OF YOU!!!!!!
Hallo John and the world
I wish u all a healty wealthy and a lot of fun and masti for this diwali and the coming year.
Dear john u yse to answer ur mail but nowadays u dont i am wondering if u read ur mails. Are u so busy. I had send mail but till now no reply. I hope that u will asnwer.
Thank u
Sila singh from Holland
Hey John i'm glad u are with Bipasha u really go with here plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz dont break up with here u are really luckt to get a girlfriend like here and she shoud be lucky to have u john if i was in bipasha's place i would never let go of u take care my sweet Janu bye bye luv u may all the blessing be with u keep up with them muscles n 1 thing i wanna say is u look sexy with the yellow trunk in dostana see u pl;z replay me bac wen u can my hotmail addi is maney_maker@hotmail.co.uk waiting 4or ur reaply
hi john,
this is shawn from kolkata.i am one of your oldest&biggest fans.i really admire your works,let it be regarding acting or associating yourself with peta.hopefully,we will meet someday.....
I wanted to say you look very dashing and sexy
handsome man in dostana .....
god has certainly in my eyes has created a beautiful person.......
WELL I DEFINETLY COMING TO INDIA ON 21ST DEC...
AND I WOULD LUV TO SEE YOU ON THIS DAY..
it will surely be a birthday wish come tru..
im a wonderfool girl from romania and i want to meet john just one time in my life.how can i do,what can i do.when i see your pictures im cryng every day and night,you are my dreams you are my everything.i just want to see one time in my life and after that i can die...my tears for your love.alinne
Hey...i am a huge fan from kenya(africa)..you are a great actor with a different and unique taste..i appreciate your passion for what you do and its great to know that you are proud and stuck to your style...thats very great of you...may god keep you and giv you success as u desire and may he continue making you the best as you are...sweet time....
I just wanna wish u gr8 success 4 next coming movie "DOSTANA"... i definately know its going to rock.... u r really superb actor... and a lot better human... i m sure ur fans will surely like u in ur new look....
"BE$T OF LUCK"
HI John ,
this one is the first message from me to you..
you did a movie with mr. Nana patekar....u know the name and i wanna tell u that the movie rocked.......
jab maine aap doono ko saath mein kaam karte dekha to i was so impressed...aap dono ki jodi unmatchable hai..aur plzzz agar ho sake to aap jald se jald mr.Nana patekar ke saath kisi aur project mein kaam...kijiye....
aur aapki movie ki themes to hamesha hi unconventional hoti hain....to plzz is cheez ko yunhi barkarar rakhiye kyunki mere jaise fans aapko isliye pasand karte hain kyunki aap sabse alag ho aur yehi cheez mujhe aapki taraf kheechti hai...
aur haan if possible...main aap ko aur mr.Arjun rampal ko ek saath dekhna chahta hoon..
to plzzz agar aap dono sath kaam kar sake in a movie like...dhoom...
waiting for the release of dostana.....movie dekh kar aap ko kuch advises deta hoon.....
byeeee
abhishek sahu...
Why do I write on this subject?
I felt like writing although normally people don’t like writings from guys like me - as I am not well read, highly accomplished, variedly experienced or a celebrity or the like - but I experienced some strange and mysterious things in life, which, may be, very unfortunate people can only have the privilege of having. So I write.
According to me the definition of good fortune is: one who enjoys good health, has the physical and mental capabilities of achieving his goals, has good appearance, has happiness in mind and is not prone to accidents…I think such a person can be called a fortunate person. Whether anyone believes me or not, I have learnt from this life that everyone is born with a balance of fortune or misfortune. I understood that sum total of a man’s personality and life, depends upon three factors: one: GENETIC FACTOR, two: ENVIRONMENT FACTOR and three: HARDWORK FACTOR. And all these three factors are not in one’s hand. One cannot take birth with good genetic qualities of one’s choice. One cannot as a child arrange a good environment for himself. He lives where he is born, in his family and goes to the school where his parents put him into and plays with such kids who are available. Ability to work hard also depends upon his genetic qualities and environments like his aptitude, attitude, health, nutrition, and motivation and may be many other factors. But all such factors are not his choice but he has to live with them as ‘chance’ grants him. So this chance is luck or fortune and some are fortunate and some are not fortunate.
So the question is why some are fortunate and some are not. What can be done to become fortunate…I have found the answer and so I write?
I was born with very bad health. I suffered from congenital nystagmus, due to which I never enjoyed a normal vision. I suffered from hormonal misbalance in brain. Hormone called serotonin remained in abnormally lesser quantity in my brain due to which I suffered from acute lack of mental concentration, lethargy, lack of memory and also from chronic depression. My parents were refugees and not quite educated. My dad worked as a soldier in the Indian Air Force and earned a meager salary. My normal body resistance was also poor and I constantly suffered from various kinds of infections. Hence could not do well in studies, games or in any other social activities, as the diseases I suffered from had no cure. So I call myself unfortunate. Because I felt I was unfortunate, I always searched answer to the question why is somebody is fortunate and why is somebody not?
My search went on. I even meditated for hours everyday and searched within to get the answer. After more than 34 years of search, I got some answers and so I write…
I started getting some answers…
Reading was almost impossible for me. With eye problem – congenital nystagmus – it was very slow and after sometime painful. And with hormonal misbalance of serotonin, mental concentration, retention and understanding were horrible. I was shown to a few doctors for my eye problem but they could not be of any help. So I was an utter failure in all the activities of life. Life was miserable. No one knew how I could be helped. My parents were not religious. My father did not practice any religious norms regularly and my mother merely carried out routine worships that she had learnt from her parents. But somehow I came to know that there is something called God who is all-powerful and can help anyone. So not knowing what I was doing, I started praying fervently everyday for months and months. One day while meditating I got a clue that if I start running in the morning everyday then my condition would improve. Somehow I shook my lethargy and got up in the morning next day and went for running. I kept running for next few days in the morning. One day, strangely I felt better, mentally and physically and I found I was able to understand so many simple things, which were riddles earlier. I was feeling free from lethargy. I was able speak with confidence and was cheerful in mind. Depression was gone. During this time reading was much easier as I was able to understand quite a few things. But my nystagmus of eyes remained. But prayer and meditation became a part of my daily life. I also tried to do running and exercise regularly. Within a week I found with distress that my mental and physical condition that had magically improved once again became what it was. Again depression, poor understanding, no concentration, lethargy and all that. It was then I understood that I am having some physical illness that needs medical attention. Strangely after a week or so, again I started feeling fine, no depression, no problems of concentration or understanding etc. I was around 20 years of age at that time. I consulted a doctor who listened patiently and told me that it was all a psychological problem and I must change my thinking habits. He also prescribed some pills, which did not work. So I continued my running and exercise, prayers and meditation. Days passed by and I used to feel fine for a week of so and remained unwell for another week or so. During the time I felt fine, I tried to study and do as many things a possible because of available mental and physical efficiency. But prayers and meditation became a regular habit.
I started learning languages better and was also able learn bit of math. I started reading magazines and newspaper as well. The overall quality of my personality improved quite a bit. It was then someday I was clearly able to feel that there exists an eternal power which people call God, who is all powerful, friendly and wants to help the world. So my habit of prayer and meditation became more and more intense. And I started getting more and more clues and answers…
I got number of clues and answers and one of the most interesting clues that I got was that the mind is not the function of brain. Memory, intelligence, knowledge and attitude are not in brain. But they exist forever in an intangible form within an intangible being which may be called soul. It is an amazing storage system, which cannot be burnt, stolen, corrupted, infected with virus, pirated or crashed and it has unlimited storage space and serves for infinite time. Probably God collects data from all the souls. Soul is not a matter or energy. It cannot be touched, weighed or destroyed. It cannot be contained. A soul remains in contact with a body so long as the body remains alive. When body becomes unfit to remain alive the soul departs it and again comes in contact with a new body. Human brain only reads and reflects the soul to the extent it is normally capable of. Soul contains vast database of information. Soul has all the information; knowledge and wisdom of all the bodies it has been in contact with in the past with cent percent completeness and accuracy. But the body that is in contact with it now, can normally retrieve only the information that has been stored during the time this body remained in contact with the soul. Memory and wisdom does not lie in cerebrum or cerebellum or in the central nervous system as normally believed. In extraordinary cases soul is capable of networking with other souls and can also retrieve or read data from other souls. Not necessary that soul always contacts a human body only. It contacts all kinds of living beings. Only specialty of a soul, when it is in contact with a human body is, it enjoys some independence and liberty of action. Animals and other non-human living beings do not have that privilege. They are simply programmed in their respective DNAs and their life cycle materializes as programmed. In human beings, with the power of will, the programmed life cycle can be altered to some extent. So the human activities are not pre determined and options are available for choosing a better activity to some extent.
Each soul goes through evolution process. Some souls are superior in quality of intelligence than others. Soul when departs a body, carries with it all the experience of the body and when contacts a new body, that new body although cannot have access to all the experiences of the soul which it had in its contact with the previous body/bodies, but unconsciously, however, the knowledge that soul has accumulated in its previous contacts manifests through the new body. The great scientists, inventors, prodigious children and philosophers are examples as they are superior species of evolution.
Soul is very possessive about the body it is in contact with and remains with it as long as achievable. But when the body is no longer fit to live, the soul departs to find a new body as per it qualifies to deserve. After departing a human body, if the soul does not deserve a human body, it has to contact a non-human body like that of an animal or may be even reptile. These are all cycles of fortune and misfortune. It is after millions of reincarnations, a soul finds a human body, which gives it the independence and liberty of choosing activities in life. A soul during its contact with a human body, if attains perfection in its purity, it does not require to reincarnate. This soul then mingles with the eternal soul – the Almighty – forever. Further, soul not only carries the memory and experience of previous lives forever, but also carries the balance of fortune it has earned or lost during lifetime. Negative balance of fortune, if carried over, the new life would be full of misery. One can develop negative balance in one’s lifetime as well, although he may have been born with a positive balance of fortune if he exhausts his balance by bad deeds. In that case he would start suffering misfortune in that life itself.
Whatever I have realized about soul and mentioned above cannot be proved scientifically but I beg to challenge any scientist or physician or a rationalist to prove otherwise.
I also got the clue as to what fortune and misfortune are. Every human being is born with a credit or debit balance of fortune. Anyone who is born with a massive credit balance of fortune enjoys life tremendously. That person is blessed with very good health, good looks and lots of wealth, mental and physical abilities to achieve his goals and enjoys happiness of mind and is not prone to accidents. A person born with massive debit balance of fortune, suffers ill health, is poverty stricken is mentally and physically incapable of achieving his goals in life, does not have happiness in mind and is prone to accidents. It is something like this. The soul carries with it the credit or debit balances of fortune like memory and experience. Credit balance of fortune can be increased during one’s life and can be wasted as well.
However, a person can endeavour to increase his credit balance of fortune. How? I have got that clue also. I am revealing the answers one by one.
Answer one:
One who does all his legitimate duties prudently, completely and honestly increases his credit balance of fortune and one, who does not, decreases his balance of fortune, because God deputes every soul with human body for some purpose. Hence, one must try to keep oneself fit to perform his duties successfully.
We all want to function at the best level of efficiency, both physically and mentally. And many of us know heart by heart that we are not doing so as certain elements are preventing us from leading the kind of life we really want to lead, within the available resources. That is to say, we are not making the best use of our available resources and the elements that come in the way to our functioning at the best possible manner, are also not unknown to us altogether, but we do not find ourselves strong enough to see them with an open eye and take measures for their elimination. In a way, we are escaping from the reality. That is to say, we are failing in one of our duties in life.
Let us, nevertheless, try to examine, what elements prevent us from functioning at our best. The elements are: worries, ill health, depression, fear, sorrows, regrets and such other undesirable feelings.
There is only one reason for our worries, anxieties, ill health, depression, sorrows, fear and any other undesirable feelings and that is: failure to perform our legitimate duties. One who performs all his duties properly and completely is a blessed individual and has no sorrows in life. Let us examine this fact closely; A school child, whose duty is to study his lessons and complete his home work, if does not perform them, has all the problems in the world, when he goes to school next day. He worries; he suffers and sometime undergoes punishments. An employee, who does not perform his work properly, has problems from the employer, results in worries, anxiety, reprisals and sometime loss of employment. If the parents do not perform their duty towards their children, then children get spoilt and give them all the sorrows of world. And if one does not perform the duty of taking reasonable and prudent care of one’s health, then again he has all the problems. Thus, there is not even a streak of doubt left that all our problems, worries, sorrows, unhappiness stems from only one reason and that is: failure to perform the legitimate duties prudently and completely.
Duties that apply to almost all of us are:
1. Duties towards oneself e.g. taking due care of one’s health and hygiene etc;
2. Duty towards others, i.e. family, relatives, friends and society as a whole;
3. Duty towards one’s job/occupation/profession etc. and
4. Duty to maintain good human relationship with all people who come in touch or contact.
While talking of duties, let us remember the magic maxim:
“Wisdom knows what to perform,
Skill knows how to perform,
And virtue performs it.”
Above formula, to attain happiness and to function at the best appears very simple. Yes, indeed it is quite simple. All problems stem from failure to perform one’s duties. Why then one fails at all? One fails to perform one’s duties only owing to either one or more of the following reasons:
1. LETHARGY;
2. FEAR AND
3. MISCONCEPTION.
In life, we all have tasted failure sometime or the other. It really tastes bad. If we analyze, as to why did we fail, the answer would be either the failure was directly or indirectly attributable to fear or lethargy or some kind of inherent misconception. How then can one remove these three evils from one’s system – the lethargy, the fear and the misconception? Quite simple – there are only two requirements:
1. Unity of thought, speech and action and
2. Faith in the system of universe or nature (or whatever one may call) or the Supreme Power.
Let us discuss these two requirements in a better detail:
Unity of though, speech and action: When one fails, what one usually says? One says, failure is due to some reasons beyond his control. He looks for excuses. He blames either others or circumstances or sometime his fate. But he never comes out with the real reason for his failure that is his lethargy, fear or misconception. But in his inner judgment, he knows the real reason – he knows that the failure is because of one or more of the three evils in his system – lethargy, fear or misconception. So there is no unity of thought and speech.
Instead, if one makes an honest confession regarding the reasons of one’s failure, one makes a psychological gain out of it. When one confesses one’s weaknesses honestly and openly before others, one automatically builds up a mental resistance within, against those particular weaknesses. The chances then become lesser for him to repeat such failures due to those particular reasons, which he has openly confessed before others. Thereby, his power of will becomes stronger and stronger and the weaknesses like fear or lethargy or even misconception, which are basically mental blocks, start diminishing gradually and in course of time, they even get eliminated. The Bible says: ‘confess your sins and repent’. These ancient words still hold good in modern times. Thus in this manner, one develops unity of thought and speech. Thereafter, having confessed that real reason for one’s failure, one should then think and declare as to what actions should be taken so as not to recur failure again and immediately start working on them. Thus, there will be complete unity of thought, speech and action. The result will not be instaneous. One has to constantly hammer and forge in order to build up a stronger character. Then sooner or later, one will realize that ‘the failures are really the pillars of successes’.
Faith in the system of universe or nature (or whatever one may call) or Supreme Power: Some people find it difficult to believe in the existence of a Supernatural Power that governs the marvel of entire universal system. They argue that the whole system of universe, the solar system, life cycle, all creations of nature’s wonders are all a mere chance and that no supernatural power is governing all these. They are the people without faith. People without faith are at tremendous psychological disadvantage, as they constantly suffer from an inner feeling of insecurity. May be there are a few exceptional individuals, who are although non believers and yet they are of strong characters and are quite successful in life. But decidedly, such individuals are negligible in number. The main reason for their success, if examined, would be perhaps, their conscientious performance of all their duties. But the fact remains: ‘exceptions do not prove the rule’.
The greatest scientist of 20th century, Albert Einstein had said: ‘God is not playing at dice’. He had said this after making a detailed examination of the physical laws that govern the universe. He had realized that the whole system of universe is so meticulously planned, with foresight of millions of years, which is possible only by an intellect of supernatural kind.
Many years before, I had read some part of a book, written by an American author named Dale Carnegie, which had helped me a lot and I had jotted down that part of the book in a piece of paper, which I am rewriting below.
“Those days are gone, when people debated about the conflict between science and faith in Almighty. One of the most modern sciences, the Psychiatry, is teaching what the ancient holy books taught. Because psychiatrists know by research that prayer and a strong faith in Almighty will banish the worries, anxieties, the strains and fears that cause more than half our ills. Dr. A. A. Brill, an American psychiatrist said: ‘Anyone who is truly religious does not develop a neurosis’.”
Mahatma Gandhi had confessed: ‘without prayers, I should have been a lunatic long ago’. Dr. Alexis Larrel, who was honored with Nobel Prize, said in a Reader’s Digest article ‘Prayer is the most powerful form of energy one can generate. It is a force as real as terrestrial gravity. As a physician, I have seen men; after all other therapy had failed, lifted out of disease and melancholy, by the serene effort of prayer – prayer like radium is a source of luminous self-generating energy – in prayer human beings seek to augment their finite energy by addressing themselves to the infinite source of all energy. When we pray, we link ourselves with the inexhaustible motive power that spins the universe. We pray that a part of this power be apportioned to our needs. Even in asking human deficiencies are filled and we arise strengthened and repaired - whenever we address God in fervent prayer, we change both soul and body for the better. It could not happen that any man or woman could pray for a single moment without some good result;’
Therefore, should we not accept a belief in God, because we need such belief? Call it God or Allah or Paramishwar – why dispute with definition as long as the mysterious powers of nature take us in hand.
If one does not know how to pray, then one should just sit down in a comfortable posture, close the eyes and take little deep breathing through nose, so as to attain a composed state of mind. Then with faith in the potency of Almighty say in mind the following words: ‘O ruler of this gigantic universe, bless me with your love, so that I remain happy and comfortable. Give me courage instead of fear, make me dynamic instead of lethargic and make me clearly understand so as to remove all my misconceptions, so that I perform all my legitimate duties properly and completely’.
Regular prayer of this kind automatically transforms one in to a stronger character, his abilities, his power of will and determination enhances day by day. Magical effect of prayer becomes visible sooner than one can imagine.
Leading a systematic life: Having mastered the above principles, one should then try to make his day-to-day life a little more systematic. After all, the essence of life is performance of one’s duties. And one can perform his duty only at present, and not in the past or in future. Therefore, the concentration should be on present day – TODAY. If we live perfectly today – only today – because we cannot possibly live perfectly in yesterdays or in tomorrows – then our yesterdays become perfectly lived ones, and there is every hope that our tomorrows shall also be well lived. Therefore, prepare for TODAY.
One should make a Master list of all the tasks and duties that one thinks has to be performed in one’s life. Then each morning, he should see the list and make few additions, if found required. Then the list for TODAY should be prepared i.e. out of the Master list, which of the tasks that can possibly be accomplished today and required to be performed today, should be listed and then GO AHEAD AND ACCOMPLISH THEM. Next morning again review the Master list, delete the items that have been accomplished, add if any new items come in mind and then prepare the TODAY’S LIST and so on. This practice does not require much time but on the contrary saves lot of time and confusion, because one knows clearly what is required to be done TODAY ONLY.
So to conclude, let us all function well, perform well and lead a blessed and enjoyable life.
I feel, the political leaders are born with massive balances of fortune. Most of them are not performing their duties honestly and sincerely and yet they are enjoying life. But as per my realization they are steadily exhausting their balances of fortune and they may end up very unfortunate or may be reborn as very unfortunate or their off springs may have to pay the price. I humbly beg to suggest them to try honestly to do their best for the people.
Answer two
We must try to maintain the credit balance of fortune, which may diminish if we do not follow the rules of Eternal Soul – the Almighty.
So the second answer that I got in this regard is that we must not hurt any soul. We hurt a soul and we get a debit entry in our fortune balance. And when we make a soul happy, we get a credit entry in our fortune balance. It is not quite difficult to understand as how can we make a soul happy or unhappy. Give food to a hungry person, we make a soul happy. Treat well and we make the soul happy. Insult a person, we make a soul unhappy.
Scientists are doing great job to make many souls happy. They invent new drugs, which heal sick people. They are inventing new gadgets that give comfort and happiness to people and also solve their problems. So are physicians, teachers and so many such people engaged in the services of mankind? Even without being a scientist or a physician, one can give happiness to souls. So many poverty stricken people are seen all around. Try to give them bit of food, clothing and shelter, according to your capability. Give people right information that can benefit them. When you work in your office, do you really help people when they come to you? What I have seen in many government, public utility offices and courts, the clerks sitting in such offices, try to harass people as much as possible to extract bribe. And their officers are also least bothered as they are busy in their own ulterior motives. They don’t know how quickly they are exhausting their balances of fortune.
Soldiers have to kill at times while performing their duty and if such killing were done purely out of duty, as not avoidable, then would not amount to a debit entry in fortune balance. Same soldier, in times of natural calamity, gets the opportunity to help people in distress. Judges have to pronounce even death sentences and punishments but that is performance of legitimate duty and does not amount to any debit entry but a credit entry when done with full honesty.
Making a soul happy is one of the easiest ways to increase the balance of fortune but most people waste their balance of fortune by hurting and hating people.
It is quite easy to remain fortunate indeed.
Answer three
Another simple answer that I got for reducing balance of misfortune or increasing the balance of fortune is: be truthful always. Being truthful means, not only telling the truth but also be honest, refrain from doing anything dishonest, harmful, adulterating, damaging etc. Some industries are making money by making spurious drugs. Some are making baby food, which are made from cheap and harmful material. Now people have even started making artificial milk, called the synthetic milk. Also illegal weapons are being made used for criminal acts and all these are done for making money. People for fulfilling needs and to get happiness and satisfaction in life require money. But this kind of money diminishes fortune balance and misfortune is not far away, because credit balance of fortune is not inexhaustible. Life is not as short as we think. Misfortune may strike in this life itself and if not, all balances of fortune and misfortune are carried forward with meticulous accuracy to next body that your soul shall be in contact with.
So don’t cheat, don’t defraud and don’t commit a crime. And also don’t be arrogant.
It sounds difficult to remain absolutely truthful. Try for sometime and see what happens. Nobody will starve to death or be destroyed by cruel world, if one is truthful, as most people think. In this very world, there are numerous people who are truthful and also good to others. At least I don’t find any of these kinds of people suffering in any way going by my definition of ‘fortune’.
My life started with great misery and by believing and adopting these answers, I am quite a happy person now. I am leading reasonably decent life and I have never lost anything by being truthful.
Anyone is welcome to verify the facts in my case.
Answer four
A soul, when attains perfection in its purity, does not require contacting a new body. Such soul mingles with the Eternal Soul - we call the Almighty.
How can a soul attain perfection in its purity? Simple. Anyone who performs all his legitimate duties to the best of his ability, prudently, honestly and completely and never hurts any soul, instead makes other souls happy and is completely truthful is a soul in its perfect purity. He is equal to God. God is the king of Universe - none can reach beyond that height.
All that I have written may appear like a fairy tale to many because there is no immediate and tangible evidence available in their support. Therefore, do not believe blindly all what I have written, instead, practice for a month at least and see for yourself – ‘what you gain or what you lose’?
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Hi everyone yesterday Shah Rukh Khan came Singapore for Zee Carnival.So when is "John" coming all yr fans here waiting to see you....
Please let us know when You are coming.....
From:Rina(Singapore)
Hope your doing good and wishing you all the very best for Aashayein.
I am anxiously waiting for your new movie "Dostana".
Are you gonna meet your fans.........I would love to meet you.
Adios,
Just4JA
Hmm I sud not say dat i am d biggest fan of urs but..yes i do like everything about you....Ur aunty Dolly she keeps me inform me about all ur schdule. Ok i've also got a pic wid man..dats so damn awesome..obviously...i am looking much more handsome den u...lol..ok i use to work 4 frangipani..wid ur aunty,and der wer i saw u man...ok..i know ur busy guy..but try and reply if possile m8...
cya ..adios
Hi Everyone,
I would like to wish all of you Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri Maaf Zahir & Batin.
May Allah bless everyone with good health and well in life.
Hi everyone, I'm proud to say my country had organise F1 Race,it had been a great experience for Singapore.Well Done Singapore.
I love my country and our people here.
Fullstop is not an 'End'.. because we can write a new Sentence after it, same way in Life, Failure is not the real 'End' but it can be the begining of Success !!
I really think that John does a very good job portraying the roles he does. I, especially,love his role in Aetbaar. It truly was one of his best works, he made Aryan, his role, come to life. It is very important for the actor to bring his character to life, and I do not think any other actor could have made this role come to life the way John did.
hi how ru hope u r fine and ur family toooo.i am the biggest fan of urz.i just wanna ask u tht whn wil the album wil b release of dostana.and i hv seen ur each & every movie 4rm jism to dhan dhana dhan goal.and up till now i listen to the songs of jism.awarapan is my best song ever
omg i just cannot get over how cute john looks with his shorter hair
i mean yeah-i like the longer hair in salaam-e-ishq and baabul-but now its waaay cuter
John,
I liked your looks and esp the coolness nature which you hve portrayed in Dostana.And the act of coolness is natural to u and u do nt hve to act for tht rite.Awesome john keep it up
Gr8 promos and i thnk this movie of urs will be hit on blockbusters.
John try to slect such scripts only in future whih has somnething uniq ue.
bye n all the bes
hi this id deni, i ve been a fan of john ever since i was in the 8th std ..... tht was wen his album songs came oout chupke chupke i simply adore him anythin him bout ....... the bikes the work he does out of the glam world every hing...... u wont believe i watched the movie water....5 times my frens told me th t john was craz to do a movie like h2o becuz it was a bore bt i loved the movie,....... be cuz the movies story line itself had a meaning unlike the commercial movies they all die fr.........
Hi...bro:),saw ur movie d.d.goal...! de concept was good u were good, infact awesome!!.Castin could hv been better ..1 more thin "hum tho aap per tab se fida hae, jab se aap modling kar rahe thae". B smiling:),take care...
hi john, love u ...just wana tell u i ve wrote some thing 4 u,nd can make sure, that will prove im ur biggest fan ever ,,,,just gimme a chance 2 prove myself.
To siren: Where did you get the other movies from? Try to get it from ethnic stores in your area or order through Eros Entertainment. Do ever come on forums on this site? If not, you should. You will get a lot of information.
Hi I'm Maree from australia
I have recently in the last 6 months
got into indian movies. I really enjoy the intensity of john's work. He is intense lovable vunerable honest and macho all in one would love to know if he can sing. Did not enjoy garam masala
was a silly film but love all the others. I've seen about 9 now. How can i get doom
To John bhaiyya:
this is Anvesh studying engg 2nd yr from HYD-BAD.
Iam a die-hard fan of you.with lots of love towards u i've joined this website.Hope u'll understand me.I cannot present u anything but need ur friendship.Why don't u respond to me?
Waiting for ur reply........................
with love-Anvesh.
A special world for you and me
A special bond one cannot see
It wraps us up in its cocoon
And holds us fiercely in its womb.
Its fingers spread like fine spun gold
Gently nestling us to the fold
Like silken thread it holds us fast
Bonds like this are meant to last.
And though at times a thread may break
A new one forms in its wake
To bind us closer and keep us strong
In a special world, where we belong.
By Sheelagh Lennon
(Wednesday, 17 September 2008) Written by atifkool
hi iam bigg fan of johnyyy.many of my friend call me john.but iam not musclelyy like you.so plleez send me your offical email id and phone number.iam bigg fan of u in pakistan
Hi John, howz everything? guess u have been very busy shooting, i'm anxiously awaiting the release of your latest movie aash....., keep up your unusual roles,but u need to relax too and have time for your self anf fans....reply let us know u r reading our messages...love ya dolly
